BDSM COACHING
LIFESTYLE | PSYCHOLOGY | PROTOCOL | COUNSELING | MORE
Life coaching on bdsm and leather lifestyle
Re-enstablishing, strenghtening and bettering connection between men
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If you’re interested in exploring BDSM, Leather, Fetish, or Kink, or if you are already an experienced practicioner of BDSM but you’re struggling with the need of guidance, or to share your feelings and thoughts with someone who actually understands your language and how you feel, Master Lupus’ coaching services may be a valuable resource for you, as it has been already for many Leathermen all around the world.
As an experienced Old Guard Leather Master, Master Lupus has over 16 years of experience in handling subs and slaves living a 24/7 lifestyle, and supporting and mentoring Dominants into the journey. As part of the Old Guard path to become a Master, He has also served as a full submissive for many years, giving Him a unique perspective on both sides of the BDSM and Kink spectrum, knowing first hand how it feels to be on both of the sides, and the emotional challenges coming with the lifestyle.
Your BDSM Coach: Master Lupus
Known online and offline as LeatherBigWolf for the years of activism and education on Old Guard BDSM, Master Lupus is an experienced Counsellor and Master/slave Trainer. “I have trained many Dominants and submissives, and I am called a Mentor by all of them. Both when these relationship were born from spontaneous interest and when Mentoring was provided as an on demand coaching service, I am grateful for the possibility of helping other men living their Leather life to the fullest.”
Master Lupus
slave jeff
“I met SIR LUPUS in 2014 in a chatroom, and was fascinated by His approach to a structure way of living Leather life and the example He was giving to the scene. I have looked up to Him for years and He has been always present with effective and valuable advice on how to face diverse situations in my journey. The loss and burying of my Master, the degradation of the scene where I don’t feel welcomed anymore, how to work on myself on being the best slave possible, and much more. I am grateful forever!”
Thank You SIR
Norm
Sir – Your words are a light on my path. Thank You for the membership, but more importantly, thank You for absorbed more – but please know Your words are giving hope.
Thank You Sir.
Truly Empthatic and Useful
Marc
Having dommed privately/personally (in LTRs only, not publicly/at clubs) & having watched a lot of BDSM Coaching vids, I have to say this is the best video on BDSM I’ve seen. Psychologically it is really best, & very important, that you face reality and admit to being a sadist (or a masochist) (or both/switch). People might not like that being front and center but it’s pretty fundamental; everything proceeds from that… including negotiating what will/won’t/can’t be done for both sub and dom/me.
Knowledge is power, yes, but self-knowledge is essential in BDSM. I really like an respect this video’s emphasis on that and also on aftercare and empathy and communication. The latter three truly make the difference between a “meh” or (hopefully not…) bad experience and a deeply spiritually/sexually fulfilling or even a life changing experience. You the dom/me are not just in control; you are responsible for thinking for your sub when they can’t think for themselves and/or their judgment is totally compromised because they’re flying high on endorphins. Sadly, I don’t think I’ve ever seen or heard a single BDSM video mention the soul of the dom/me as this video does. That is one of the many things that elevates this video far above all the other
BDSM videos I’ve watched. Bravo.
Online coaching with Master Lupus
Master Lupus offers online coaching services to help individuals explore and navigate the world of BDSM, Leather, Fetish, and Kink. His coaching style is tailored to each individual’s unique needs, goals, and desires. This service has been created as between the day time work and the Family time, it’s impossibile to provide support without taking out from business time.
It’s important to understand that Online Coaching is not a sex work service. Coaching Sessions are not cam sessions in which you are going to have virtual sex. Life Coaching is a practice where the coachee embarks on a journey of self discovery, acceptance and growth trough the techniques and the trust-based relationship with the Coach. The goal, is helping you to reach your goals and objectives, discuss your struggles and emotional journey with someone who understands what you’re going trough, and take positive and actionable insight on how to cope with situations that may arise in your journey.
The coaching sessions are conducted through one hour video calls, or are available in more holistic experiences of online video calls plus messaging in real time.
One Shot
One 60 minutes web conference- Call One to One with Master Lupus
- Schedule the meeting time
- Old Guard Leathermen Membership
- Direct Contact for Whatsapp / Telegram
One Month
One 60 minutes web conference per week- 4 Calls One to One with Master Lupus
- Schedule the meeting time
- Old Guard Leathermen Membership*
- Direct Contact for Whatsapp / Telegram
One Quarter
One 60 minutes web conference per week- 12 Calls One to One with Master Lupus
- Schedule the meeting time
- Old Guard Leathermen Membership*
- Direct Contact for whatsapp / telegram*
**The direct line with Master Lupus is intended for Coaching purposes only. In the case of any harassment or abuse of the service, the direct line may be suspended at any time.
WORKSHOPS
Master Lupus, like every Leather Master, has His own specialities. These techniques have been acquired and studied by His Mentors during a period of 6 years of subbing. As a personal law, He says “I wouldn’t ever do on another man something I hadn’t on myself first.”.
The techniques which can be taught during Workshops (personal or group ones) are:
- Whipping
- Hypnosis
- Mindfuck
- Video & Audio creation for sensation play
- Coaching for Doms & subs
He is not a Rigger, nor an expert in Electro, so these two activities can’t be taught. The setup for these kind of services is always different case to case, so we encourage you to have a chat about your needs and we can create a custom solution for you.
Benefits of Online BDSM Coaching
A great part of Training a Leatherman is communication. Only through lots of open, completely honest clean dialogue a man can find the peace and freedom that are so often denied nowadays.
Every time we speak, we worry about being judged, about revealing secrets, about our kinks and how may them be perceived, about our true desires and more. With counseling, you’ll have an experience and emphatic person to talk to about the things you need help with, get more centered, happier and self-aware.
While Sir Lupus has also studied psychology, He is not qualified as a psyochologist, psychoterapist, psychiatrist or medical doctor. Studying psychology has been a part of his education, but most of the knowledge that will be used in these sessions simply come from the long work of introspection, the over 16 years of experience in BDSM , spiritualism and meditation.
Through Master Lupus’ coaching, men can expect to improve their quality of life, quality of sex, and relationships. Here are some benefits of online coaching:
- Understanding Yourself Better: BDSM, Leather, Fetish, and Kink are all about exploring your desires and boundaries. Master Lupus helps people explore their deepest desires and boundaries, leading to a better understanding of themselves and their needs.
- Building Confidence: By providing a safe and non-judgmental space, Master Lupus helps clients build confidence in expressing themselves and exploring new experiences. Confidence is a crucial factor in exploring BDSM and Kink, and Master Lupus helps clients build the confidence they need to fully engage in these activities.
- Communication Skills: Communication is key in any BDSM or Kink relationship. Master Lupus will help you improve your communication skills, leading to more fulfilling and enjoyable experiences. He teaches clients how to communicate their needs, desires, and boundaries in a clear and concise manner, leading to better communication and more enjoyable experiences.
- Personal Growth: BDSM and Kink exploration can be a powerful tool for personal growth and development. The goal of bdsm coaching is helping you to explore your desires and boundaries in a safe and non-judgmental environment, leading to personal growth and development.
- Techincal Skills: Something nobody tells you nowadays in the years of social media and fake posing, is that 90% of the BDSM activities are actually really potentially dangerous. Acquiring the skills and experience, especially as a Dom, is paramount. Sir Lupus can help you assess your level of preparation, and direct you to resources where to strenghten your skills.