Many men are sexually driven by the idea of pleasing another man, and often mix the need to please with the actual...
The BDSM Lifestyle
In the BDSM Lifestyle section of our website, we focus on answering questions for newcomers and long-time lifestyle participants.
What is BDSM? How to deal with the end of a BDSM Relationship? What is the meaning of pain in BDSM? These and more questions answered by long-time bdsm lifestyle participants.
Processing disappointment as a Dom who has submitted to another
As expressed in our article on why is it healthy for a Dom to submit, and how is that submission different, I'll...
Hankie Code in Leather & BDSM
Members only: Sir Lupus read through and commentaryIf you'd like to feel a little "closer to home" and prefer...
A day in Our Old Guard Leather Family
Members only: Sir Lupus read through and commentaryIf you'd like to feel a little "closer to home" and prefer...
SSC BDSM – Safe, Sane, Consensual
Members only: Sir Lupus read through and commentaryIf you'd like to feel a little "closer to home" and prefer...
About BDSM
BDSM stands for Bondage Domination Sadism and Masochism. It is an acronym that groups together the main dynamics of a...
When a Dominant submits
What happens when a Dominant submits? What are the different dynamics in play, and what is the value of said...
10 BDSM Mistakes Dominants make
Here is a list of 10 BDSM mistakes that Dominants and Masters should be aware of and consider, that I have observed...
Dealing with the end of a BDSM relationship
Members only: Sir Lupus read through and commentaryIf you'd like to feel a little "closer to home" and prefer...